Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Do The Right Thing

I know I write a lot about the new relationship I'm in but I usually blog about the things going on around me. I don't even post half of what I write because a lot of time its very personal and a lot of times I'm to lazy to come to the site and post.
Anyways for those who don't know I recently committed myself to an amazing man who lives in a different state. So I wonder does absence make the heart grow fonder or is out of sight out of mind? I know on my end as the days go by the feeling gets stronger. While I'm not in love yet Ive got a strong case of like going on.
So here's the thing. With the distance between us I don't know what hes doing there and he doesn't know what I'm doing here. Do I really worry about what hes doing there? Not at all. I cant concern myself with that. I don't stalk his twitter or facebook because I'm a firm believer that you always find what you're looking for whether its actually there or not. Because you are looking to catch your mate in something everything you find will look as such.
So now its cuffing season. I'm not a bad looking chick and I'm getting attention from the opposite sex. Ive had one person in particular coming on extra strong these days. When he found out I was sick he gtalked me all day and acted concerned telling me how to take care of myself and get well and he is pressuring for my phone number. I told him I couldn't give him my number because I had a boyfriend and I wouldn't like it if he was giving his number out and talking to other women. Either I'm getting soft in my old age or I really like this guy. I think that I really like this guy so the solution is easy. Delete the other person from gtalk and twitter. I wonder how many other people would do the right thing if they knew they could get away with something and not get caught?

1 comment:

  1. I'm here by way of ThugRockStar...

    My last 3 relationships have been long distance and none of the breakups have been due to infidelity. At some point you SHOULD realize that you get out of a relationship what you put in and if you must cheat, stay single. Note I said should.

    That being said, anyone that disrespects my relationship gets the axe, no questions asked.

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