Rule #1 There is a reason they are your ex. It didn't work out for a reason. Ive noticed with cuffin season going on a lot of people are running back to ex lovers. A lot of ex lovers are calling me. Well not a lot but a few of em. In my opinion it is never acceptable to wanna mend things with someone who once made you hurt. That's my opinion and others don't see it that way. Once we are done we are done and there is nothing left to talk about. I think when a relationship ends you need to give yourself time to reflect. Think about why what went wrong went wrong and the part you played in it. Take this and grow from it and try not to make the same mistakes. Even if one person was more wrong you both played a part in the unraveling of your relationship. Each relationship is to make you a better person and should be used as a learning and growing experience. Going back in weak and lonely moments will only leave you weaker lonelier and more hurt than before.
No you cannot be friends with all of your ex's because majority of the things that cause them to be your ex are things your friends wouldn't do to you.
This cuffin season I'm practicing self love. My lover lives far away anyway. By self love I don't mean masturbation I mean I am gonna love myself and not participate in self destructive behavior and I hope everyone who reads this decides to practice self love and not hurt themselves anymore.
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