My significant other is taking part in the October 30 day blog challenge where he has committed himself to blog everyday for 30 days. I blog everyday but my lazy ass rarely post here. He was looking for topics for today's blog and my girlfriend suggested "relationships and socical networking sites" He passed on the topic and suggested I write it instead so here goes.
My significant other and I follow each other on the socical networking site twitter. We are also face book friends but since neither of us barely use it lets focus on twitter. We are from different towns yes it is a LDR so that has made the relationship a challenge in itself. On twitter he is @ThugRockStar and I'm @Prttybrwnskn. If you don't follow us stop right now and go do it and thank me later. We are both very attractive people and we get a lot of attention from the opposite sex. I know it and he knows it. We are both also very funny well hes funnier than I am and that also gets a lot of attention from the opposite sex. Have there been times where he has seen me tweet questionable stuff I'm sure as well a I have seen a few things in his timeline that have made me go hmmm. Hell just today I got bored and engaged my male followers in a discussion about men faking orgasms. Was purely for entertainment purposes not because I wanna sleep with any of my followers and he knows that. Will we break up over stuff on twitter? Absolutely not!!! I could think of far worse things to fight about than what goes on on twitter. Way I see it is this. If all we can disagree on is that then we are doing pretty damn good but we don't disagree on it. Thing is twitter is just for fuckery and entertainment that is all. It in no way shape or form mirrors real life. I'm sure most of my followers would be disappointed to know im not doing half as much of the stuff as I tell them I am in #twitterafterdark and he well he is just as amazing in real life as he is on twitter ;)
In real life grown up adult relationships trust and communication are the most important elements. If you and your significant other have an agreement, a mutual understanding that you are in an exclusive committed relationship then anything done on a social networking site really shouldn't affect that its harmless entertainment. If you see something your significant other has done that looks questionable then maybe the two of you should have a talk about it. Don't let it sit and fester be an adult about it and talk it out. If it was a misunderstanding let it go and move past it. If you cant talk about it then there is a bigger problem at hand than what you saw. Also do not stalk your significant others timeline or face book page. 9 times out of 10 they are doing nothing wrong anyway but you will find that they have done something wrong simply because you looked for it and want to find it. I am @Prttybrwnskn and I approve this message
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