So I know those of you who regularly read my blog are sick and damn tired of hearing about my fabulous significant other and how great he is. Well ya'll just jealous cause ain't to many good men out there and I snagged one. I feel like he may be the one and I want it all right now but at the same time this is scary and I wanna slow down but I'm not gonna do that cause hey you only live once right?
How soon is to soon to define a relationship? This is a discussion Ive been having with a lot of my girlfriends here lately. We as women wanna know are men really into us or are they tricking us cause cuffin season is in full bloom?
One of my girlfriends is super confused because she has gotten comfortable with a guy. Hes sleeping over every night, they are being unprotected during sex and acting as a couple. She initiates the lets define our relationship talk and he tells her she is smothering him and he cant breathe.
We decided the best thing for her to do was fall back and that's what she did. She even had a date with another guy even though she really wanted to be with him. The things we women must do to make a man behave. He eventually called her and was tryna feel her out. He got scared and did what most scared little boys who pose as men do. He ran.
Another friend of mine is tryna sort her feelings out for a guy who came out and said he don't do relationships but has been kinda settling into one with her. If she says she wants more than what hes giving she then comes off as pushy and runs the risk of running him off but if she says nothing then he will never know how she feels.
Why are men so afraid of letting go and giving into a woman? Especially when we make it clear we don't wanna hurt them. What is so hard about be honest about your feelings?
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