When you're in a new relationship it seems like everything about that person is beautiful. Its all smiles and butterflies at first. They call everyday send sweet notes ask about your day and make you feel uber important. Then 5 or 6 mos down the line when she used to cook everyday you're now eating take out. Those high heels he used to love you to wear he no longer offers a foot rub.
You have been duped. You fell for that persons representative. I think we all put up a front when we're getting to know someone. Its only natural to feel the need to protect yourself until you are sure of that person and their motives. I have been guilty of using a representative on occasion myself.
I am a really laid back woman. I'm easy to get along with and very submissive in relationships. Its taken a lot for me to be comfortable enough with who I am so now I have no problem giving you who I am upfront the good with the bad.
So what do you do when u discover Prince Charming or Ms Right was only a representative and the real them is nowhere near the person you fell for initially?
Well now you have to make a decision. Is the person they really are that bad that you cant deal? Were you guilty of using a representative as well? Are they maybe disappointed in who you turned out to be. Sometimes the real person turns out to be better than the representative.
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