Mr Wrong

What makes a man already in a relationship look for a relationship with another woman? This seems like a pattern in my life. I seem to attract men who are emotionally unavailable. It would be one thing if they only wanted to sleep with me, but these men are actually trying to establish a bond or relationship with me. One of my friends joked with me a few days ago about being a boyfriend theif and she was right. I do sleep with other womens boyfriends. I always say "if he was my man he wouldn't cheat" and also "if these brawds would tighten up their game I wouldn't be able to sleep with their boyfriends" and its true.
Since January I have been celibate. I made a decision to not have sex because I feel like I have so much more to offer than my body. I almost broke my vow recently with someone I've known for a while. We've had sex before, but we've never been romantically linked until recently. He started coming on really strong and was pretty adamant about getting my time and attention. I started to take him seriously for once instead of viewing him as the occasional booty call like before. We made an agreement to get to know each other and just see where it leads. Well it finally came out he has a live in girlfriend. How do I feel about that? Well honestly I really don't care. He just put himself back into the emergency dick in the glass case category as far as I'm concerned. I finally really understand what JayZ meant when he said "when a good girls gone, she's gone forever" because now I could never take him serious as far as getting to know him and considering a relationship. I will say this ladies you gotta tighten up if u want your man to stay home, but also if you're like me and notoriously the other woman you have to stop that shit. Its women like me who make it possible for men like him to cheat.