Thursday, September 15, 2011

Understanding Your Virgo girlfriend

We are in the middle of Virgo season and I am starting to realize not everyone understands the complexities of the Virgo woman. Because of our sweet, giving nature and the fact that we are naturally submissive the Virgo woman is the most desired woman of the zodiac. No shade to the other signs at all but Virgo women really understand how to let a man be a man.
At first we are very shy and reserved. We may even come off as being cold and unemotional. I am very shy when u meet me. True story the first time I met my boyfriend I lied and told him I had a headache to buy me some time to warm up to him and then I actually ended up getting a headache. He was really sweet about it and bought me some ibuprofen and Fiji water when he picked me up from the airport.
Once you get past that shy standoffish part and get our wall down its like a free for all. Very much the people pleasers its no different in romantic relationships. If you ever feel like your Virgo comes on too strong when showing her affections its because that's what we do. We will show you we love you all day long even though we rarely say it.
A Virgo loves by taking care of you, your wants and making sure u have everything you need to be successful in life. We take care of the little things no one else has even thought to do before.Your bathroom will be spotless and you can eat off the kitchen floor. Lets say you wake up for work before your Virgo does, when you get up u will find your clothes have been laid out and ironed, and probably the coffee maker has been set and all you have to do is flip the switch to cut it on.
The Virgo woman is the perfect example of a ride or die chick. She will stay down for you like 4 flats on a Cadillac and love you harder during those times your difficult and unlovable. Your money ain't right? She will hustle and help you get it where u need it to be. You have a dream you don't know how to even begin to realize? She will devise a plan to make it happen. If youre in a pissy mood she will know exactly what cheers you up and wont stop until you smile again.
Have you ever hurt a Virgo? You probably don't know if you did because she will be very polite about it and wont say anything. This is a fatal flaw of ours. We deal with hurt internally. If your Virgo ever mentions or complains about anything shes gonna do it in a nice way and you should make note to fix the the situation because shes not gonna keep poking and prodding at it.
I know myself personally I never discuss my feelings. I hate having to tell someone how I feel, so if you have hurt me it builds over time till I can't deal anymore and I break things off. I'm good for that one often leaving the other person shocked because they thought our relationship was perfect. When we get to that point where I tell you I'm done there is nothing you can do about it because I've probably been done for a long time and was just making sure I was making the right decision before breaking things off.
If you have been lucky enough to experience the affections of a Virgo make sure you tell her and show her you appreciate her everyday because she will bend over backwards for you.