I had a issue with one of my girlfriends where she was certain that I was low key flirting with her boyfriend. I have a boyfriend of my own so I'm not tryna mess with another man let alone the man of one of my friends.
All of my friends are pretty cool with my boyfriend so I didn't think it was an issue that I was cool with this guy casually since he does deal with my friend.
The thing about me is I rarely offer my friendship, because when I do offer my friendship it is genuine and real. When I give my friendship I expect the same thing in return.
A lot of women are sneaky and deceitful so I'm not upset at my friend for expecting this of me, simply because I'm sure shes been dogged by people who were wolf in sheep's clothing and only pretended to be friend but weren't. Instead I'm saddened that women are so competitive we would rather tear each other down than support one another.
I'm glad that I decided to sit down with her and address the issue instead of waiting on her to bring it to me.
