I just read something somewhere that says "a wise girl kisses but doesnt love, listens but doesnt believe and leaves before she is left" I immediately thought to myself well then that girl isn't so wise afterall. Isn't love and taking chances a part of life. You truely haven't lived unless you have experienced some sort of hurt, pain or loss. I think thats what's wrong with todays world. Everyone wants everything handed over without having to put any effort forth to obtain it. Like the woman who wants the wedding and gets frustrated when she learns she has to work on the actual marriage part of the relationship. If you want the wedding so bad then just throw yourself a big party, wear the fancy dress and leave the innocent bystander out of it.
I myself am a work in progress. I'm learning to trust God and step out on faith because my biggest fear is being that wise girl who didnt live.